基督是根

Christ is the root

夫子应该是基于儒释道，倾向基督文化的读书人。

I should be a scholar who is based on Confucianism(surface), Buddhism(heart) and Taoism(bone) , further inclined to Christian (root) culture.

从心理学的角度来看，忍耐和宽容可以帮助缓解冲突，减少负面情绪的积累。

当面对挑衅时，通过冷静思考和理性应对，可以避免情绪失控，从而更好地解决问题。

From a psychological point of view, patience and tolerance can help ease conflicts and reduce the accumulation of negative emotions. 

When faced with provocation, calm thinking and rational response can avoid emotional loss of control and better solve problems.